Carrying Love Forward

Most people think the grieving period is over after the funeral and we should simply pick up the pieces and move on, forgetting our loved ones who are no longer with us. Kind of like “out of sight, out of mind.” But for those walking the journey we know all too well this is just the beginning of a journey filled with many ups and downs. Even if our loved ones are no longer in our sight, they will forever be in our hearts and mind. In reality, grief doesn’t ask us to forget; it invites us to remember with grace. Grief isn’t about closing the chapter on our love, but about carrying love forward into the life we must continue to live.

It becomes part of the essence of who we are—like the ocean, it’s sometimes a quiet, gentle tide, and other times a raging tsunami. No matter what, it’s always there, woven into our days.

As we journey forward, we eventually will come to a beautiful realization: our love for the ones we’ve lost is not diminished. It remains, unwavering and eternal, guiding us through the darkest days and helping us navigate the valley of the shadow of death. This love becomes a beacon in the night, a constant reminder that we are never truly alone.

For those who walk by faith, in the midst of sorrow, our faith in God becomes the anchor that keeps us from drifting away. He holds us when we feel we cannot stand. His promises remind us that while grief may change us, it doesn’t erase the bond we share with those we’ve lost. It’s okay to feel the pain, to mourn, and to miss them. These feelings are a testament to the love we shared and the impact they had on our lives.

Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. We don’t move on from love—we continue carrying love forward. And as we carry it, we discover that love, mingled with faith, has the power to transform even the deepest pain into a tender strength. Grief will always be part of our story, but it’s not the entire story. Love remains, sustained by God’s grace, that gives us the courage to keep moving forward. Don’t hesitate to reach out to your faith community or loved ones for support. They can be a source of comfort and strength during these difficult times.