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The Ordinary Moments We Miss the Most
One of the surprising truths about grief is this: it’s often the smallest, most ordinary moments that we miss the most. In the beginning, we tend to focus on the big things—the birthdays, the holidays, the milestones that will never look the same again. But as time passes, it’s the quiet, everyday moments that begin to echo the loudest. The casual conversations.The shared meals.The laughter that filled the room for no particular reason. The ordinary rhythm of life we once too

Pat Elsberry
May 262 min read


When Joy and Sorrow Live in the Same Heart
One of the strangest discoveries along the grief journey is realizing that your heart can hold both joy and sorrow at the very same time. In the early days of loss, it can feel impossible to imagine ever experiencing happiness again. The pain is so heavy that it seems to fill every corner of your life. But slowly, something unexpected begins to happen. You might find yourself laughing at something a friend says. You may notice a moment of peace during a quiet walk. You might

Pat Elsberry
May 192 min read


Carrying Love Forward
Most people think the grieving period is over after the funeral and we should simply pick up the pieces and move on, forgetting our loved ones who are no longer with us. Kind of like “out of sight, out of mind.” But for those walking the journey we know all too well this is just the beginning of a journey filled with many ups and downs. Even if our loved ones are no longer in our sight, they will forever be in our hearts and mind.

Pat Elsberry
Aug 12, 20252 min read
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