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Learning to Live Around Grief
In the early days of grief, it feels impossible to imagine a life that holds anything other than the loss. The sorrow is so heavy, so all-consuming, that it fills every space of your life and learning to live around grief seems impossible. Every thought. Every memory. Every moment of the day seems to circle back to the one you love and miss. In those early days, it can feel as though grief has taken over everything. Breathing feels harder. Sleeping feels impossible. Even the

Pat Elsberry
Apr 282 min read


The Loneliness of Grief
One of the hardest parts of grief is realizing that life has started moving forward for everyone else, while you’re still carrying the loss every single day. People go back to work. Conversations shift. Life slowly returns to normal. But for those who are grieving, nothing feels normal anymore. Even when you are surrounded by people who care about you, grief can create a quiet kind of isolation that few truly understand. In the early days after a loss, support often comes in

Pat Elsberry
Apr 212 min read


The Guilt That Often Follows Loss
One of the quiet companions of grief that few people talk about is guilt. After someone we love dies, our minds often begin replaying the past like a movie we cannot turn off. We remember conversations. We revisit decisions. We replay moments over and over again, wondering if we should have said something different, done something more, or somehow changed the outcome. If only I had called one more time. If only I had been there. If only I had known. Guilt has a wa

Pat Elsberry
Apr 142 min read


When the World Stops Saying Their Name
One of the quiet heartbreaks of grief is the moment you realize something has changed. People have stopped saying their name. In the early days after a loss, our loved one is often spoken about freely. Friends bring up memories. Stories are shared. Their name is spoken with tenderness and care. But as time passes, sadly, something shifts. The world moves forward. Conversations change. People grow quiet. Not because they have forgotten, but often because they are afraid of say

Pat Elsberry
Apr 72 min read
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