January 2026

When my daughter first died, I had no idea how grief is so exhausting. It took a while for me to realize that grief is not just something we feel—it is something we carry . Day after day. Some mornings, the weight greets us before our feet ever touch the floor. Other days, it settles in quietly as the hours pass, leaving us bone-tired by evening. It has a way of wearing us down, not only emotionally, but physically and mentally as well. So why is grief so exhausting? Loss a

A few years ago, I realized something that surprised me: the anticipation of the anniversary is often harder than the actual day itself. If you’ve noticed this too, you’re not imagining it—and you’re not failing at grief.

When we think of grief, the first emotion that often comes to mind is sadness. And while sadness is certainly part of the journey, it is far from the whole picture. Grief is not a single note—it is a symphony of emotions, layered and complex, rising and falling in ways that can take us by surprise.

I’ve often thought that grief can feel like a heavy shadow that refuses to lift. In the early days of loss, it may seem impossible to imagine a future where happiness could exist again. Every breath feels weighted, every step exhausting. Yet even in the deepest valleys, God plants something that has the power to keep us moving forward: hope.