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Grief and Secondary Losses
Secondary losses are the additional effects of a primary loss. When we experience grief, these secondary losses can blindside us. We may expect to mourn the death of our loved one, but the way that grief expands—touching every aspect of life—can be unexpected and overwhelming.

Pat Elsberry
Mar 24, 20252 min read


Crying While Standing Up
Our grief is not linear. Some days, we feel overwhelmed by sadness; other days, we can laugh, smile, and find happiness in the smallest moments.

Pat Elsberry
Mar 17, 20252 min read


The Oxygen of Hope
But living without hope is impossible. Hope is our oxygen. It’s the fuel that keeps us going when times are tough, giving us the strength to press on through the challenges we face during loss, and the vision to dream of better days.

Pat Elsberry
Mar 10, 20252 min read


A Hard Fought Hallelujah
When we are experiencing sorrow due to loss it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. We may question our strength, doubt our purpose, or even feel abandoned by God. But it is precisely in these moments that we are brought face to face with our deepest vulnerabilities.

Pat Elsberry
Mar 4, 20252 min read
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