March 2026

There’s a quiet fear many grievers carry but rarely say out loud.   What if healing means I’m forgetting them?   What if the tears don’t come as often? What if laughter returns? What if the sharp ache softens? Does that mean my love is fading?   For many, the pain feels like proof. Proof that they mattered. Proof that the love was real. And so, without even realizing it, we can cling to the intensity of grief because it feels like staying close.   Others fear something differ