Let the Light Into the Darkness

When we think of the word darkness, we think of death, sorrow, loss, heartbreak, bleakness, gloom, and misery. All these words conjure up such hard, murky moments of life. When a loved one dies, there is a season of darkness. Yet, just as the seasons change, at some point, we must learn how to let the light into the darkness.

Recently I read a book, Pushing Back the Darkness, by Kris McBride. It was an excellent read and a book I highly recommend. Kris is very transparent as she shares her heartfelt struggles with God after her son was diagnosed with a form of cancer at 18 months old. She shares how God met her at every turn and the many miracles during Andrew’s life. At the end of each chapter, Kris provides avenues of thought for encouraging fellow grievers. Each chapter offers an encouraging word and an action item we can implement to help us along in our grief journey.

As many of you know, faith has been a guiding light for me in my own journey through grief. Kris’s book not only resonated with me on a personal level, but it also introduced me to a wealth of Christian resources that have been instrumental in my healing process. It’s a treasure trove of goodness, a beacon of hope that can help us all let the light into the darkness.

Friends, it is so easy to remain stuck in our grief. I’ve been there, and I’m confident I’ll wander back down that road again at some point. It usually happens once or twice a year, especially as the holidays and anniversaries approach. Knowing that the darkness is part of this road we find ourselves on is half the battle. We can then allow ourselves to venture down the road that lets the light into the darkness of our lives. As grievers, we can embrace both joy and sorrow as they learn to co-exist in our lives.