When the loss of someone we love turns our world upside down, and when our faith feels fragile, grief has a way of shaking us at the core. We may find ourselves asking questions we never imagined we’d ask: Where are You, God? Why did this happen? How do I go on from here?

Even though this journey has been the hardest thing I’ve ever walked through, there comes a time when we can choose joy and remember the love more than the loss. Choosing joy means finding moments of happiness in the midst of sorrow, whether it’s a shared memory, or a comforting word. Remembering the love more than the loss involves focusing on the positive impact Melanie had on my life and the lives of others, rather than the pain of her absence.

Finding solitude during the holiday season is a precious gift we can give ourselves. It allows us to recharge our spirits, gain clarity, and appreciate the beauty of simplicity during the holiday rush. So, as we navigate the joyful whirlwind of the season, let’s remember to embrace the gift of solitude and cherish the quiet moments that nourish our souls.