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Learning to Carry Them Into New Seasons
One of the hardest parts of grief is realizing that life keeps moving forward. The seasons change. Children grow up. Milestones arrive. New memories are made. And somehow, we are expected to keep walking into those new seasons without the person we love beside us. There are moments when their absence feels especially heavy. A graduation they should have attended. A wedding where their seat sits empty. The birth of a grandchild they never got to hold. A family vacation that fe

Pat Elsberry
Jul 72 min read


The Love That Has Nowhere to Go
One of the hardest parts of losing someone you love is realizing that all the love you still carry suddenly has nowhere to go. The routines that once held that love—the phone calls, the hugs, the everyday conversations—are gone. Yet the love itself remains, just as strong as ever. For a parent who has lost a child, that love does not fade simply because their child is no longer here. If anything, it feels even more present. You still want to check in on them. You still want t

Pat Elsberry
May 122 min read


Learning to Live Around Grief
In the early days of grief, it feels impossible to imagine a life that holds anything other than the loss. The sorrow is so heavy, so all-consuming, that it fills every space of your life and learning to live around grief seems impossible. Every thought. Every memory. Every moment of the day seems to circle back to the one you love and miss. In those early days, it can feel as though grief has taken over everything. Breathing feels harder. Sleeping feels impossible. Even the

Pat Elsberry
Apr 282 min read


A Sacred Season, A Tender Heart
The holiday season comes clothed in glittering lights, familiar hymns, and cherished traditions. It is often spoken of as a season of joy and celebration, rich with togetherness and expectation. Yet for those walking through grief, this sacred season meets a tender heart, and the holidays can feel heavy, quiet, and anything but joyful. Grief has a way of amplifying everything, and during the holidays, it speaks louder. Every ornament pulled from a box carries a memory. Every

Pat Elsberry
Dec 16, 20252 min read
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