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Walking Through Our Suffering
When we are walking through our suffering and are in the hard, dark places grief can bring us, we often feel like we’re alone on an island. But I want to encourage you today. No matter how you may feel, you are not alone! I will never forget the overwhelming sense of seclusion I feltContinue reading “Walking Through Our Suffering”

Pat Elsberry
Mar 11, 20242 min read


Moving On or Moving Forward
I bumped into an old coworker I hadn’t seen in a long time. We began talking, and she told me about a relative who had suffered child loss. The loss had occurred over 30 years ago, and she was deeply concerned that her relative had not yet moved on. When she said this, she immediatelyContinue reading “Moving On or Moving Forward”

Pat Elsberry
Mar 4, 20243 min read


Tears
For anyone walking through the grief journey, tears are one of the many emotions we frequently exhibit. As I found out recently, I’m still capable of shedding buckets of tears due to the death of my daughter, Melanie. I’m not entirely sure why this year hit me harder than previous years, but I didn’t fightContinue reading “Tears”

Pat Elsberry
Feb 26, 20242 min read


Always Loved, Never Forgotten, Forever Missed
Today marks 4 years since Melanie ran ahead to Heaven. She will always be loved, never forgotten, forever missed. Time is a funny thing because it seems like yesterday and forever all at the same time. While all loss is hard, child loss is a loss like no other, and although I may never understandContinue reading “Always Loved, Never Forgotten, Forever Missed”

Pat Elsberry
Feb 18, 20243 min read
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