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The Stories Our Scars Tell
When we experience a deep loss, we often wish we could avoid the pain altogether. We long for a way around the heartbreak. A way to return to who we were before grief entered our lives. But grief changes us. The loss of someone we love leaves a wound on our heart. In the beginning, that wound feels raw and overwhelming. Even the smallest touch can bring tears. The pain seems ever-present, reminding us of all that has been lost. Yet over time, something begins to happen. The w

Pat Elsberry
Jul 142 min read


Learning to Carry Them Into New Seasons
One of the hardest parts of grief is realizing that life keeps moving forward. The seasons change. Children grow up. Milestones arrive. New memories are made. And somehow, we are expected to keep walking into those new seasons without the person we love beside us. There are moments when their absence feels especially heavy. A graduation they should have attended. A wedding where their seat sits empty. The birth of a grandchild they never got to hold. A family vacation that fe

Pat Elsberry
Jul 72 min read


The Fear of Forgetting
One of the quiet fears many grieving people carry is the fear of forgetting. Not forgetting the person themselves, but forgetting the little things. The sound of their voice. The way they laughed. The expression on their face when they were excited. The way they walked into a room. As time passes, many of us begin to notice that certain memories are no longer as sharp as they once were. Details that once felt vivid can become harder to recall. And with that realiz

Pat Elsberry
Jun 302 min read


The Guilt of Smiling Again
There comes a moment in many grief journeys that catches us completely off guard. We laugh at something funny. We enjoy a meal with friends. We find ourselves fully engaged in a conversation. For a brief moment, we feel... okay. And then the guilt rushes in. How can I be smiling when they are gone? How can I enjoy this moment when my heart still misses them so deeply? Many grieving people carry an unspoken belief that if they begin to experience joy again, they are

Pat Elsberry
Jun 232 min read
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