There comes a moment in many grief journeys that catches us completely off guard. We laugh at something funny. We enjoy a meal with friends. We find ourselves fully engaged in a conversation. For a brief moment, we feel... okay. And then the guilt rushes in. How can I be smiling when they are gone? How can I enjoy this moment when my heart still misses them so deeply? Many grieving people carry an unspoken belief that if they begin to experience joy again, they are