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Learning to Live Around Grief
In the early days of grief, it feels impossible to imagine a life that holds anything other than the loss. The sorrow is so heavy, so all-consuming, that it fills every space of your life and learning to live around grief seems impossible. Every thought. Every memory. Every moment of the day seems to circle back to the one you love and miss. In those early days, it can feel as though grief has taken over everything. Breathing feels harder. Sleeping feels impossible. Even the

Pat Elsberry
Apr 282 min read


The Loneliness of Grief
One of the hardest parts of grief is realizing that life has started moving forward for everyone else, while you’re still carrying the loss every single day. People go back to work. Conversations shift. Life slowly returns to normal. But for those who are grieving, nothing feels normal anymore. Even when you are surrounded by people who care about you, grief can create a quiet kind of isolation that few truly understand. In the early days after a loss, support often comes in

Pat Elsberry
Apr 212 min read


The Guilt That Often Follows Loss
One of the quiet companions of grief that few people talk about is guilt. After someone we love dies, our minds often begin replaying the past like a movie we cannot turn off. We remember conversations. We revisit decisions. We replay moments over and over again, wondering if we should have said something different, done something more, or somehow changed the outcome. If only I had called one more time. If only I had been there. If only I had known. Guilt has a wa

Pat Elsberry
Apr 142 min read


The Exhaustion of Grief
Why You’re So Tired — And It’s Not Weakness If you are walking through grief and feel constantly tired, please hear this: you are not lazy, unmotivated, or lacking faith. You are carrying something heavy. Grief is not only emotional. It is physical. It is mental. It is spiritual. And it is exhausting. You may experience: Emotional fatigue. Feeling “on” for others drains you. Smiling when your heart aches takes energy. Brain fog. Forgetting appointments. Struggling t

Pat Elsberry
Mar 172 min read


When Tragedy Strikes
When tragedy strikes and the dam of sorrow bursts, we are thrust back into a place we thought we had left behind. The ache is raw, and the grief feels new, even if it’s old. What do we do?

Pat Elsberry
Jul 15, 20252 min read


Ways We Can Honor Our Loved Ones
As the anniversary day approaches, we are flooded with memories and emotions. This day can be incredibly challenging, as it often brings the pain of loss back to the surface.

Pat Elsberry
Feb 4, 20252 min read
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