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The Legacy Love Leaves Behind
One of the greatest gifts our loved ones leave behind is their legacy. Not the kind measured by accomplishments, titles, or possessions. But the kind measured by love. Long after someone is gone, their influence remains. It lives in the lessons they taught us. The values they instilled in us. The traditions they created. The kindness they showed. The ways they loved and cared for others. We often think of legacy as something large and extraordinary. Yet many of the most meani

Pat Elsberry
Aug 112 min read


You Don’t Move On — You Carry Them With You
One of the biggest misconceptions about grief is that one day you will “move on.” But anyone who has loved deeply knows that isn’t how it works. The world often talks about grief as something we should move past. People say things like, “It’s time to move forward,” or “You need to get back to your life.” But grief doesn’t work that way. One of the quiet fears many grievers carry is this: If I begin to heal, does that mean I’m leaving them behind? When someone we love

Pat Elsberry
Mar 312 min read


Protect Your Heart While You Grieve
It’s been a few years since I’ve written about self-care (Self Care or Selfish), but it remains an integral part in helping walk through the grief journey. Recently, I’ve been thinking that no matter how much time goes by, it’s still so important to protect your heart while you grieve. As the season changes fromContinue reading “Protect Your Heart While You Grieve”

Pat Elsberry
Oct 2, 20232 min read
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